The last duty is to hand over to them, at the proper time, their inheritance Parents not only love and tend their children as long as they are still in their custody, but also make preparations for their future comfort and happiness. The main aim of his renunciation was not only for his own happiness, peace or salvation but for the sake of mankind. Wishing you lot of joy on your wedding day. This symbolic practice has been carried out from time immemorial in Buddhist communities. According to what the Buddha taught about the law of Karma, one is responsible for one's own action and its consequences.
The Buddha's Explanation We can study the Buddha's teaching regarding the feelings that man and woman have for each other. Unfortunately it is in danger of dying out because of the influence of modern civilization. Their sexual relations must have been like birds and animals of momentary duration. Buddhism recognizes the traditions and cultures practiced by people in different countries. The Ceremony There is no specific Buddhist ritual or procedure to conduct a marriage. If husband works she looks after the house or both of them work for strengthening the economic condition of the family. By and large, the most important point is that the couple should be utterly sincere in their intention to cooperate with and understand each other not only during times of happiness but also whenever they face difficulties.
It is likely to be supported by the attitudes and values of both the sexes. In the end, what do we gain from attachment to this life? It is practical, caring and generous and it is selfless. Otherwise, there will be mutual cursing and other repercussions. All my senses look forward for your wedding day! And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. However, a man should not become a slave to any religion.
We always wanted to see you as a bride and groom! A society grows through a network of relationships which are mutually inter-twined and inter-dependent. . All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. To him, that which gives pleasure give happiness, and to be happy is to experience pleasure. Marriage regulates sex life of human beings.
The third duty is to give the children a good education A decent education is the best legacy that parents can bequeath to their children. Some of the important definitions are given below. That means, if one wants to experience sex, he must do so without creating any violence or by using any kind of force, threat or causing fear. Non-sororal polygyny means the marriage of one man with many women who are not sisters. More often than not the infection is transmitted to progeny as well.
The power to create a child with God is at the heart of what spouses share with each other in sexual intercourse. They imbibe what they impart. Like most group marriage on record, its time span was limited. His advice was realistic and practical when he explained a good number of day-to-day characteristics which a woman should or should not cultivate. Transcribed from the print edition in 1995 by Mark Blackstad under the auspices of the DharmaNet Dharma Book Transcription Project, by arrangement with the publisher. When a couple gets married, they usually plan to have a number of children. Thus, the second spouse, although not existing simultaneously with the first, is sometimes referred to as fitting into a pattern of sequential monogamy, serial monogamy or remarriage.
In Amoris Laetitia, Pope Francis writes: Marriage is a vocation, inasmuch as it is a response to a specific call to experience conjugal love as an imperfect sign of the love between Christ and the Church. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. In certain matters, sex particularly, co-wives have clearly defined equal rights. Stuck in a bad marriage for life? No self-respecting intelligent human being who really understands what he believes according to his own conviction should give up his beliefs merely to satisfy the man-made demands of another religion. Practices unheard of and never carried out by the older generation have become common place among young people today. It is stimulated by novelty.
In this way, the Buddha served his family, and he paved the way for their salvation, peace and happiness. People often think that it is a duty to get married and that marriage is a very important event in their lives. They fail to provide proper attention to all of them. Under the protection of our parents, we pass our days in a perpetual round of enjoyment which undoubtedly gives us pleasure. One should try to understand the nature of the worldly life.
When any one of these conditions is absent as when family planning is being practiced , no conception takes place, therefore a life does not come into being. They make enormous sacrifices and develop love and understanding to ensure happy and stable marriages. Now, men are taking more responsibility for their own health and it is normal for a man to express concern about his health and take action. As a result, young people are being punished by the same society which encourages free mixing of the sexes. So where marriage is taken as sign of prestige and prosperity the custom of polygyny is natural.
They become social outcasts and suffer much shame and humiliation. The full article can be read or downloaded from:. Nor has it ever meant that. The discomfort of poverty can be averted if there is complete understanding between the couple. The mad rush for material advancement, the liberation movements and the aspiration for equality have resulted in many mothers joining their husbands, spending their working hours in offices and shops, rather than remaining at home tending to their off-spring.