People should practice polygamy openly and with pride as did the prophets in the Bible who took the women as wives, brought them into their household and gave them equal standing. Because whatever He decrees is for the benefit of man and He has not send down this deen inorder to cause us distress rather as a mercy. And where there is a testimony that that person has ever spoken a lie in his life, then his narration is rejected completely, no matter how true it is. Jesus calls you and all people to him and offers peace with God and rest for the weary. O God, you speak and I say, I submit, your ways are higher than mine! Why would a woman put herself in this position? If the husband leaves her wife as is the case with almost 90% of misyar marriages without divorcing her then there is no one to take care of her and her children and neither can she marry again as the husband has not divorces her. Almost every Christian sects has its own version of Bible and claim that its from God. Perhaps you need to study the history of Christianity some more and stop quoting Islamic texts to support your arguments.
So, If you want truth you have to look into the life of prophet Mohammad and his holy companions thats all. Do you believe Jospeh Smith 19th century of the Mormons is a prophet? What secular minds do is observe human behavior as evolving. I believe that, there is a wisdom in whatever Allah decree. What a weird and wonderful religion. People like you use these forums to let their frustrations out and then run away.
May God richly bless youl, and guide us all in the right path. A Misyar marriage may well be suited to them. Is Allah Most High not Most Wise in granting those rights in the first place and not making provision for this voluntary sacrifice? No one else has commented. Istikhara supplication to God in regards to marriage in Urdu and also English are showed beneath. Differentiating between natural and deviant behavior only works from a subjective standpoint.
To argue that the contract should be evaluated entirely as a legal entity between two parties consensually coming to an agreement, is to ignore the very gender inequality that led to the creation of the legal instrument in the first place. Which gives the husband authority over his wife. However, if I get an explanation that shows that in Misyar marriage, all the Islamic legal requirements are met, then the marriage is valid. How can sexually hungry people control themselves in this day and time? Islam does not deny that, it only restricts it. Debates about shia and sunni, should be in a seperate article, not here. And most importantly they tell everyone about their marriage, usually at a big wedding party.
The Bible that we Muslim call the word of God is the original revelation to Jesus Christ, because surely a book was revealed to him. Then you claim that all translations of the Bible are the same thing. Nia in west doing sex wihout marriage is allowed and male mostly misuse the girls for few years and left her. I praise Him and thank Him so much. Shi'ites believe that the lawfulness of temporary marriage is still standing and it is unchanged and there are no authentic religious texts to indicate that it has been forbidden. Now let us not talk about the few deviant exceptions like sluts, perverts, homosexuals or sociopaths that cannot control their anger. God takes each of us where we are and then changes us, sometimes quickly in some areas, in other ways, bit by bit.
I mean, like none of us are perfect, right? حتى الآن، العديد من مهندم، الأثرياء، والمهنية تعليما، جميلة، وناجحة، والمرأة المستقلة واحدة أو أرملة أو seperated الذين هم في مقتبل العمر، ويضطر إلى أن يكون alone. I love reading and learning new subjects and developing my career. At least Germany was practical enough to legalize prostitution when it banned polygamy. اس لئےتاریخ 20-3-2015 سے ہم گمنام کمینٹنگ کو بند کر رہے ہیں. « This article has absolutely no credibility. God is good and only good comes from Him, I cannot believe in Him and then think that polygamy is good only so far as it does not apply to me. I hate the way people are handling this issue.
So Keep in mind Whatever is not allowed by God or by Holy Prophet is Harram. And Allâh is Ever AllAware of everything. Open your Bible and read it thouroughly and be honest, So many contradictions and you wil find some verses not fit to propagate or teach to people specially young child because it contain stories of lewdness,immoral, sex and stories of incest. Universal-Publishers — via Google Books. No special action is required regarding these talk page notices, other than using the archive tool instructions below. Who is sponsoring the violent Taliban in Pakistan? The husband and wife thus joined are able to renounce some marital rights such as living together, the wife's rights to housing and maintenance money , and the husband's right to homekeeping and access.
And where is the unchanged original, since we know God protects His revelations? Forever bought and sold from one man to another because of ignorance and financial destitute. However, I beg of you, have some consideration for my mother tongue. I love him because He first loved me. This means that the man marries her on the condition that he will spend the day with her but not the night. Why should Saudi Government allow misyar marriage? However, some students of the Shaykh said that he later retracted the view that it is permissible, but we could not find anything in writing to prove that. You neither have proof that he was the first to practice polygamy in creation or that Adam only married Eve, we only know that Eve was his first wife.
But I do have to make it clear that the aforementioned statement does not make me a protagonist of Misyar marriage. Marriage is about sharing a life with a provider, responsible and God-fearing husband… any man seeking mysiar is not sincere and will dump and divorce you as soon as he gets bored with you. Some, however, say that these unions act as a form of exploitation and are adamant that Misyar marriages be prohibited unless some steps have been taken in order to protect the rights of the women. That only a few men are satisfied with one woman is a ridiculous claim, unless you think utmost sexual activity at the expense of moral satisfaction is what you mean. There are prominent scholars that are against this type of marriage. That's why al-Albani and Ibn Uthaymeen contest the legality of misyar marriage. If the time period fends, then the Nikah is abrogated.
So, such women can opt for this kind of marriage. She countered with exactly why that would be impossible. Some terms are plain text, some are links to articles, some are italicized, some are in parentheses, and some are in quotation marks and also in parentheses. For the women who accept it — spinsters, divorcees and widows — it's a something-is-better-than-nothing option, though they waive almost all the rights that a normal Muslim marriage entitles them to. For further details, refer to:. But he didn't actually say it's allowed to intend for this kind of marriage to be temporary. Fortunately it worked out for her and a couple of months back her misyar husband bought her a house and publically acknowledged her.