She tried attempting suicide few times. This doesn't seem like that. I have become very weary, weak and helpless toward her, every piece of support I give her is taken with offence, as an insult of her character or some other negative quam brewed inside her hyperactive mind. So I was very clear last night as to my feelings and just how much this is affecting me. I would start by encouraging her to seek medical care. If you can do the reporting anonymously, do it that way. Make an appointment with a doctor and be there with her.
My suggestion is start having a quality of life before it is to late , love is wonderful when it is growing but it can be hell if it is one sided. Helping a friend who is battling depression is hard work. Girlcode has given great advice, I can only add a few tips for things you can do that might help. We split up due to this but have now resolved our problems as he realises i need support, not ignoring. She is no longer able to enjoy the activities that she once did.
If your friend is prone to any of these conditions, they must attempt to overcome them through stress management, positive thinking and any other therapies or techniques that may be effective. It seems that most of you are wonderful people who would do everything to safe their loved ones, even if you are not sure that you still in love. Robot and I was in a downer mood, and the next day he showed up with a Qwerty for me. Please reflect on this and sort things out. Some people need to just help themselves.
Help her with all that, I would say that's the best thing you can do. She means so much to me and I feel like the more and more I tell her that the more I push her away and the more scared she becomes that someone could actually more then just like her, which I think is where I'm at, but I don't feel like that would be wise to tell her that at this point in time. She needs either counselling or cognitive behavioural therapy by the sounds of it. I don't think I'm quite at that point yet. If she isn't then she really should do that. I know all relationships go through a rough patch and there are always ups and downs but I wish the lows weren't so low with her.
I love my girlfriend more than anything and she means everything to me. I feel that without communication, the relationship won't be as healthy in the future. Good, gotta go now we'll chat next week. Transitions are hard for anybody and these can include graduations, getting a new job, moving, getting married, or having a baby. You have to make sure you are keeping your own head above water too. I know that might seem hard when your girlfriend needs you so desperately, but if you let your own wellbeing lapse, you can't be there for her properly, and you might even start to resent her.
I was now listening attentively and I could hear the sadness and frustration in my friend's words. Thank you for the suggestion. Little things that show that you care are helpful, too — flowers, fave food, a movie night in, breakfast in bed, or even to just hold her hand. She relies on me sitting down and talking sense to her, but I too feel like a caretaker, an older sibling or even a parent sometimes. You may even go to a show together.
Even in the depression it never changed, it wasn't his fault. I wonder, has she tried any alternative herbal remedies for depression? It can even steal away things as simple as making it impossible to remember how to take care of yourself. Also, it is very important that a psychiatrist, and not a general practitioner, be managing her medication. Just let them know that you are willing to listen when they are ready and give them time. What's my issue, and what steps can or should I take that would help both her and me? But what you need to understand is that she doesn't really want to.
What do you think might help you to feel better? I don't think she realises how much she means to me and just how amazing a person she is. She could be that can be treated by going on a. I want so much to help her, but I feel like I have nothing else to give. Longer than I've known her. Your girlfriend should know that she has the right to be an active participant in her treatment plan and to discuss changes to this plan with her clinicians. Do you know anything about her past? Again, this isn't my first time dealing with her in this mindset. I am very caring, soft spoken and outspoken.
I don't know how to take that or where to go from there other than just continue to love her. And above all remind them that you will always be there for them. Understand when she's upset or angry, hold her when she cries, listen to what she has to say. Encourage her to read it too. Trust me, I've been there - afterward I wonder what made me say all the rubbish I come out with! If you would like to talk to a therapist or counselor, you can use our site to locate one in your area. As someone dealing with depression and being on the 'helpee' side, I will do my best to help you out.
Maybe your girlfriend finds talking to her friend, who also has the same kind of problem, helpful in some way. Share some ways to help her feel better when she talks about suffering. But where us your relationship right now? Try thinking back to those in hard times or look at the older texts again like you do, I do that too haha. And if you say it, mean it. This really got to me, he is my first love! She is always upset and angry at me and i have found her balling her eyes out in the middle of the night. I'm going to stand my ground tell her I love her and give her a day or so off but just tell her I love her in the morning and evening. Force the issue for them.