I don't know how long it will be before the hormones stop making her decide things she probably like me never really wanted. I like to feel that our society is responsible for most of the issues people have today. I told her that I am still around because I enjoy the company of friends and all the new people and experiences. Well for the rest of the week her distance was off and on. So by backing off, you should find something important in your life and work hard at it. What do you think that I should do? Hey I kind of like this girl lol I also do not like big crowds, loud noises, difficult people, etc.
Turns out this scared her and all she could say was we went from 1 to 100 very quickly. I want to be there for her, I want to help her get through this in any way possible. After few months , she turned colder and more distant. But there's nothing I can do about any of this. If she posts a picture of her looking cute on instagram, she has 50 guys drooling. Though we work together we live and hour apart and I have been off work for a while due to recent surgery. She came back to me in August and it was good for awhile kept forgetting to post a thanks! I just hate the not knowing.
She could leave me if I say the wrong thing here. I understand a misscarrage is a hard thing to go through etc. Besides, a good counsellor won't be asking your girlfriend to talk about all the nitty gritty details. But I find it kinda bullshit, as in my opinion, shes lost so much weight etc since she saw him, and maybe she is thinking, oh he might think im super hot now, lets get back to him. I pushed her kinda often and told her to have an easy meeting for a few weeks to see how it goes.
I tried very hard to communicate and be there for her but she just did not want me around. . If they havent changed within a month after she is born, they I suggest talking to her seeing if she will let you see her, if she does then see if you're allowed regular contact, which you have to agree too and keep it constant, If she changes one weekend say when you;re meant to see her and she says you cant. I usually wait for her to text me during the afternoon and etc. Weeks of me waiting and her playing games on me, we finally spoke on phone again, i tried calling her before this but she just let it ring. It's second nature to suggest a walk for example but I'm learning to think differently about it. But I know a few women who were happy with thier boyfriends until they got pregnant.
But yet she told me, i believe its either to test me, or its to give me false hope. I just don't want my family and I to be surprised at the hospital nor do I want to keep paying her bills if she has someone else who can do that. She rather stay home and lay in bed and watch tv instead of coming to my house or go out? This is to make sure that the woman can pass on the strongest genes to her children. She also has been a bit upset. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. If you plan on having a family with this girl, do you want your kids to see that for some reason mommy is entitled to put daddy down? This is one of the most important keys to understanding women. But after a while it went different as I tried to touch her more too often and was about to get closer.
One day she left for a 2 months lasting trip to the beach and wanted to see me in person as she liked me a lot … told me she will be sure to have an awesome time with me , convinced me a lot in any way to do so. Is he really that unsure of himself? We need all the support we can get at this stage, and the truth behind it all, is that we usually with being pregnant, realize we're being emotional or crabby, we just don't know why. Try talking about the baby and see what her reaction is. Maybe when you are both at the midwife bring it up then, explain to her that you are very worried and dont know what to do. I know the love I give her and if she chooses to stay away there must be a support and Love at the place she feels most at home. One night a few weeks ago everything changed, it was kind of like she had been manipulated by someone close by like her mother, prev day she was loving and happy just like normal, then the big boom came, she called me shouting that i about wasnt enough for her but call ended up good. I really love this girl.
I like the real world. Most people will go their entire life being miserable simply because they never. I have some of the most amazing, successful friends. To me, it just sounds like you want to have sex more often. Well she got a job and she decided that she wants us to get a house.
Obviously this is a major topic that I teach. We just got home from a vacation with her family, we were gone a week. Focus on the improvement of yourself as an individual. We are however both just tired of this and really dont want it to continue any longer, cause it is dragging us both down. The past couple weeks Ive noticed shes been acting cold and distant and being rude about things for no reason. My girlfriend has severe anxiety and doesnt like big crowds, loud noises, difficult people, etc.
This is what you need to work on. You must seriously value your self if you made it this far. So you give it back. About a month ago, I noticed a delay in time it takes her to reply to my texts. Rick if you are reading this please give me your advice. I stopped calling her names, my extremely rude comments, my insults to what her interests were and my temper as well. Just my elaborate two cents.
All I get is short word answers. It was very enjoyable for both of us. At all we met us some day I spontaneously flew to her hometown after friends recommended me to do so because we could never set really plans and I wanted to convince her and show her she has not to be feared that I am not interested in her enough and will drop her like her 2 ex boyfriends who lived on distance. Should I try to keep the communication going or should I just cut ties. I posted those pics on Facebook and that was all it took for her to flip out! This guy hates me but loves my girlfriend. She may be feeling scared of becoming a mother, and with you being the closest to her, lashing out at you.