Some pre-written openers that have been proven to work… funny, teasers, shockers etc And… 2. In A-2, the man must generate female to male attraction. Put yourself in environments where you have a chance to show off what you are excellent at. My thanks go out to Cal for giving me the idea to write this blog post. Mystery: Ok, I can only stay a sec, my friends are waiting, but who cheats more, guys or girls? Stories and routines are simply crutches and training wheels for newbies. The result: even women who have a boyfriend, or who are married, can be attracted to you if they have an unsatisfied psychological need. However, this becomes a slow and strenuous process if the goal is simply sex.
I wanted to opener to do all the work! You do not want to get caught up trying to win an argument with the girl, as that will make you lose comfort rapidly. Isolate target then bounce, seduce, close Option 3. You cannot attract a woman who lives at a higher social level than you. That means they don't have sex with other members of their species. Humility: Related to the above.
This mini-isolation will make her less susceptible to distractions from her friends. But this is normal for me. As such, you should have a number of stories that together tell your life story, leading up to where you are today and where you are going. Could there possibly be an end to any of this? The only way to truly develop in this game is to put yourself on the line, and actually try to have a real conversation. To try to flirt, for real; to try and tell a real story from your life; to engage her in conversation using a real question, or real situation in your surroundings. It is about feeling like you know each other and you cannot get there without emotions.
Questions One way to launch into a conversation thread is to ask a question. My complete brain will be emptied out to the world for all to learn from and I will stop at nothing to make sure you succeed! In something like the Mystery Method, I believe a woman oftentimes feels Buyer's Remorse because the process of seduction didn't feel very natural. If you think you're inherently ugly, you're fucking wrong. F close enough girls this way and you'll find that many are not only indifferent to you later on. It really helps me think thru things further, as well as helps me understand where I might be able to make myself clearer in my teaching philosophy. Or rather, improving these will take time.
I began Seduction Science back in 2001 for smart guys to learn game. Some would want you to believe that you can attract women using routines, gimmicks and lines. Once you become really good, you can give up canned routines and work on things that are natural and congruent to you. Another technique that builds Sexual Tension is triangular gazing. Just the other night I was out with a student and we were taking a break from approaching and just hanging out talking, laughing and just acting silly! This also means that the woman of your dreams will be sexually attracted to you since you have genes that are opposite to hers.
But no matter what your troubles are with women. You want to have a broad set of things in common, but also things you do not have in common. Some people like to wing it, but I prefer to have stories from my life that get consistent results!! Women are just not used to a man not being into them or giving them what they want. Let me guess, you must be best friends then. I just love this stroy because it could never have happened to me before the community and learning how to succeed with women.
Be sure to do this during a conversation thread to make sure she follows. You see, what attracts women to men is autonomy and security plain and simple. The relating part is important as it allows you to build commonalities. Non-reaction-seeking: This is related to the last one. The list goes on and on.
My point is to do it as yourself — but if you need training wheels, use them — by all means. This can take anywhere from ten minutes to several hours. My student was immediately attributing their aggressiveness to the fact that they were drunk and liked my fashion sense but I knew it was different and I explained what really happened. However, since this desire isn't verbalized, you end up building sexual tension. According to recent studies in sexual imprinting hypothesis, people prefer partner's who look more like their selves, than those who do not. My answer to that question may shock you. Based off of that, I try and steer people down one direction or the other.