. Also while formulating the answer to my question, could you try to answer it in a general way — the dark-natured elements associated with sex generally , rather than considering my case in isolation. I will delight in the bliss of my sensuality. Sex is enjoyable but to be lost to the pull of joy is an imbalance by itself. However, by simply learning to draw the aroused energy upward and circulate it through the body's various energetic pathways, and then using the breath and visualization to help direct this, the energy is easily circulated.
Our sexual energy is our creative, life-force energy. Is it not absurd to deny sex then? The essence of these teachings is that when lovemaking is not goal-directed as in seeking to achieve orgasm or other pleasures , but rather takes on a more calm, relaxed, meditative quality, there is a subtle building of a charge of energy in the body. And for these sorts of situations, it's quite useful. First is for men to learn to not ejaculate every time, which results in a tremendous turn-around in their vital energy in daily living. At this point, I have two choices. Holding back, fixating on performance, or letting your mind drift is the end of passion. The recommended position for intercourse is the female-superior position so the man can rest passively below, quietly allowing the stimulation and secretion of vital hormones to restore the health and potency of his sexual organs.
Our sexual energy, or that energy that is in us that can be bent to sexual uses, is a pretty good chunk of our total energy. Is it always about sex? Let the orgasmic energy transport you to , visions, and pleasure. Trust the many incarnations of bliss. To cure self-doubts, you need to be solution-oriented. This will not make sense to Western-trained physicians who, without an understanding of its energetic aspects, can only see cessation of periods as a disease state. This is what Fractal Enlightenment is about, to help you understand your self better, work with the inner to help you experience the better.
This is a difficult area for most people to talk about, and yet, it is probably second only to the will to survive for human beings in the way they connect their energy to the world. Many enlightened Masters seem to suggest that moral virtues like monogamy have no real significance in spiritual understanding. There are no limits to where ecstasy can take you as your sexual energy allows you to deeply connect to yourself and a partner. The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours. It then becomes dangerous, risky, more highly charged. In the best of situations, orgasm is an exchange of energy that blesses both partners. I do visualization of the shakti shiva and that helps for so long only, days perhaps, that it stops working and the orgasms start again.
This occurs very quickly after the first sexual encounter, but may occur before the union in the etheric sexual realm. One is really wasting energy when having sex in such a way. That is until someone has something bad happened. Men who use tantric sexual practices that involve semen retention -- that is, intercourse without ejaculation -- do not experience this depletion of vital essence, and in fact feel more energized afterward. Sexual energy and passion connects you to the joy of heaven, earth, and realms beyond. During our therapy, she gained the courage to leave the marriage and eventually her pelvic pain disappeared. Neither one of you wins really because if you win, you feel great and your partner feels lousy or visa versa.
It's okay to fantasize, just do it with made up people, not always someone you know or see on the silver screen. It can rejuvenate the brain like nothing else and bring superior health, strength and vitality to the entire body. And those differences are significant. Women may need up to twenty minutes of foreplay. Roxie has started to heal the wounds that stopped her from surrendering to a partner. Spontaneous intuitions about people, work, or health may flash through.
Sex: Before and After Romantic Twin Flame Unions Etheric Sexuality: Beyond the physical, twin flames — authentic ones — almost always report having sex in the etheric body before even meeting in the physical. Or Steve Jobs when he was inventing the iPad? In meeting, twin flames complete a — the physical, spiritual, mental, emotional, ethereal, astral, and celestial. Focus on the sensuality of your body. If sex goes really very deep, so that you forget yourself completely in it, you can even have a glimpse of third through it. In tantric lovemaking couples learn to synchronize their breathing and circulate their sexual energy through the heart.
But some women cannot reach orgasm under any circumstances, and because of this they suffer after each sexual contact from sacrum pain, headaches and feeling overall exhausted. In the short run it may seem like less trouble to avoid conflict but your erotic life pays a price. How should we behave in our sexual relationships in order to advance to God through them, instead of moving in the opposite direction? This will work in any field of attempt. I wish parents and authority figures would finally grasp that when you tell teenagers that sex is forbidden, it beckons all the more. Team work is the key to a free and harmonious reality. True intimacy is always a balance between bonding and letting go so the relationship can breathe. I have read your blog a few times as well as other generally related sources to try to cultivate a stronger understanding to strengthen this practice of channeling.
Also, what about rape and domination? That sort of direct contact strikes at the root of human interaction and therefore is rich in the way we stay connected to it in our past. I could still feel the joy while caring for others. When we get intimate with anybody we tend to receive their positivity or negativity and unknowingly incorporate it in our everyday lives. They have become human predators, and as far as I'm concerned they need to be treated as such. My mind told me what if that happens to me.
Even if we do not meet the other person ever again, or if we do have a continuous physical intimacy with our partner, each time we get into the act, we receive a part of their energy into our aura and leave a part of ours into theirs. Then instead of rolling over and becoming unconscious immediately begin debating you argument. Sexual Over-Indulgence As with everything else in our stimulation-seeking modern society, we abuse sex. Now, let's look at an interesting facet of using someone's sexual energy against them manipulatively. In all these ways, emotional intimacy only makes sex better and is a balm that sustains couples. We all have our own unique genetic blueprint. There will be more openness and spaciousness in your body as the energy of these suppressed emotions get released.